Don't leave messages on read— imagine calling someone and then just not saying anything! 😶

Ignoring messages can make the other person feel unimportant or unsure if they should even bother following up. A quick response, even if it’s just to acknowledge the message, helps keep things respectful and the conversation going.

❌ Don't Do This

When someone ignores your messages, it can feel like you’re not valued or even like you're bothering them.

Take Alex, for example, if Nelly had responded promptly, Alex wouldn’t have been left wondering if he was being too pushy. Instead, Alex was stuck waiting, not knowing whether to follow up or just give up on the conversation.

The same goes for:

  • “Yo, you there?”
  • “Sorry to bug you, but…”
  • “Talk to me when u have time”

If you see a message, just respond!
A quick acknowledgment, even if you're busy, shows respect and keeps the conversation flowing.

It's 2025, good communication isn't common anymore! 😊


✅ Do This

Being responsive to messages shows respect for the other person’s time and keeps the conversation flowing. Take Sam, for example: by quickly replying, Sam shows that they’re engaged and respects Alex’s time. Alex doesn’t have to wonder if they're being too pushy or if the message was lost in the void.

In fact, responding, even if you're busy, builds trust and shows your willingness to communicate. This goes a long way in building strong relationships, both personal and professional.

Examples of great responses include:

  • "Hey, I’m a bit busy right now, but I’ll reply soon!"
  • "Hold on, I’ll talk to you in a bit!"
  • "I see your message, I’ll respond when I can!"
  • "Got it, I’ll get back to you in a few!"

So, if you see a message, don’t leave it hanging. Acknowledge it, even if you’re tied up.

Quick responses show that you care about the other person and the conversation. 😊

Communication matters. A simple response can make a difference. 💬

made by swow, thank you Nelly for the inspiration. ❤️